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They Adopted a Village
Children headed to school near Xining
Children headed to school near Xining
By Ling Chow, Adoption and Special Projects Coordinator

Many people have heard the ancient African proverb that it takes a village to raise a child, but for MJ and David Betzold, they see it the other way. We have not only adopted a child from China. We adopted a village, a country, and a culture. We have a bond with the people we met in the village where our daughter was found that will never be broken, said MJ Betzold.

It has been almost three years since David & MJ first saw the picture of their daughter, Gabrielle, who was living at the Xining Children's
Pointing to where Leng Mei was found in a basket
Pointing to where Leng Mei was found in a basket
Welfare Institute (CWI) in Qinghai Province on the Tibetan Plateau of western China. Gabrielle had been a waiting child with Children's Home Society & Family Services for approximately two months.  In this time, no one had come forward to adopt her. It seemed as though this adorable little girl was just waiting for the Betzolds to see her picture.

The adoption process went smoothly. MJ and David arrived in China in early January 2004. Upon arriving in Xining, they learned that their daughter was hospitalized with pneumonia. They were able to go to the hospital to see
Old, worn-out desks at the local school
Old, worn-out desks at the local school
her but they could not take her with them until several days later.

While they were waiting for her to recover, MJ and David visited the village where their daughter, whose Chinese name is Leng Mei, was found.  Leng Mei means cold peach blossom. 

Soon after her birth, the village leader found her in a basket laid beside the haystack near his home. She was wrapped in a blanket with an orange-colored flower tucked neatly inside.  The orphanage director heard of this story and so gave her this name.

During their visit to the village, MJ and David had
New desks on their way to school
New desks on their way to school
the unusual privilege of meeting the foster family who had cared for Gabrielle before she was admitted to the orphanage, the Xining CWI. 

The Betzolds immediately bonded with the people of the village.   They had such a powerful experience that they felt compelled to give something back to the people there.  During their visit, MJ and David had a chance to tour the village school.  During the tour, they immediately saw a way they could give back.  They promised to provide new desks and chairs for 210 students. The new desks and chairs arrived at the
Students with their new desks
Students with their new desks
school in September of 2005 – just in time for the new school year

Update:  CHSFS organized a trip in August 2006 to continue the commitment made by the Betzold family and traveled with a small group of enthusiastic participants to Qinghai province in western China.  To get a glimpse of our trip, click here to go to the photo gallery. You'll see an improved playground and new school books for the students in this village among other images.






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